I sometimes wonder that happiness in one’s life is just a matter of coincidence or is it a result of well planned or well-thought series of actions. At the end of the day how will i rate my success ? What are the parameters ? Why does it happen that there are times in our life when we are on our toes to accept the things as they come in our life and there are times when we feel poky about anything whether good or bad in our life ? What derives this positive or negative energy ? I was so confused and lost in my thoughts for a very long time. So, finally i got to meet a gentleman who could satiate my inquisitive instinct.
Later I found out that all the answers were scattered around in front of me only but I couldn’t see them.
We all are living a life that is based on conditioning from past events or future anticipations. We all are carrying the load of our past ( Failed relationships, being brought up in dysfunctional families, regrets on our incapability to convey our feelings to the right person at the right time, comparing our spouse with his or her own past image, cribbing about the loss in essence of relationships) or the anticipations from our future( Achieving the targets set by us only, providing this must standard to our children, creating such legacy.)
And when we are so much stuck in past and future , how can we actually cherish the beautiful today. I know life is made up of present , past & future but past is gone , future is unpredictable but today is in your own domain. Try to live it beautifully, this day is your territory. Trust me, when you are making your present beautiful ,you are creating a past that you can cherish remembering( b’coz your present when gone will be your past.) And you will improve your future as well( Future contains the shadow of today.)
Love this beautiful day. Live your life day by day. When you will live if day by day , you will plan it, you will do things that will make you happy, meet your buddies, call your friends.
It is saying that we are hearing since our childhood –“Live your life as its the last day of your life.” I don’t think its based ona pessimistic thought that we are going to die tomorrow. Rather ,this has an optimism that each day deserves the best from our side and is worth to be planned. Its worthwhile to make some efforts to make this day beautiful. This day is actually the basis unit of life. Lets do our favourite things today. Nothing else matters but today.